Caleb’s New iPad

Caleb was recently the recipient of a new iPad Mini thanks to the Heather and Liam Connection. This organization brings awareness for persons with autism and other learning disabilities. The have a physical presence at the high school in my hometown but also raise money to provide iPads to kids who would be able to take advantage of all the great apps these tablets have to offer. While Caleb does not have autism or a learning disability, he does use an iPad frequently during physical therapy to help him with his gross motor delays. As a matter of fact, we’ve seen excellent results when he’s focused on a game while trying to stand independently. We had no way of replicating these results at home since we didn’t have a tablet of our own. A few months ago, we asked that Caleb be considered for an iPad and last week, we received it! It sat in the box for a couple days until I could cover that sucker with a kid proof case. We also had a long talk about rules and sharing protocol, etc.

We’ve had several impromptu therapy sessions at home while using the iPad and Caleb has done great! Getting him to stand and bear weight on his legs for several minutes at a time is just so great for building those leg muscles he needs.

We are so thankful to the Heather and Liam Connection for providing us with another tool in our arsenal to help Caleb continue his path toward independent mobility!

Standing with canes

Standing with canes

Super focused while standing against the wall

Super focused while standing against the wall

But still a goofball of course!

But still a goofball of course!

And now, Caleb’s also working on building up his time that he can stay standing on his own. We had some success the other night and I wanted to share with you his “8 second” ride.

Posted in Caleb, Day in the Life, Physical Therapy

Lots of Firsts and Milestones for Parker

Recently, Parker has experienced quite a few “firsts” that I figured I’d showcase here since it’s quite likely these events won’t make it into the actual baby book until… um… who knows.

Parker’s First Thanksgiving

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First Beer

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First Time at Zoolights

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First Flight to Colorado (Already been to St. Louis and Maine)

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First Time Wearing Overalls

(and last time in this pair since they didn’t snap at the crotch)

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First Time Meeting His Great Grandparents

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First Christmas

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“Mom again with the selfies?” Yes, son… yes.

First Time “Opening” Presents

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First Time Swimming

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First Time in the Snow

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Parker Can Now Sit Up on His Own

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6 Months Old

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Eating Solids!

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Parker’s Aquababies Class

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…And TWO Little Teeth

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Christmas 2014

Whoa, 2015 already?  This year flew by. Or rather, time has flown since Parker was born (pregnancies seem to drag on, especially toward the end). Our lives became even busier with the addition of several post-operative physical therapy sessions a week for Caleb since his Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy surgery in August. Before we knew it, the holidays were upon us and the hustle bustle of the season had taken over.

This December we took the boys to several different Christmas-themed activities such as Zoolights at the National Zoo and a visit to Henleyville Christmas Village (actually the intricately decorated backyard of a wonderful family who just allow people to come visit, for free, because they love Christmas).

Henleyville Christmas Village!

Henleyville Christmas Village!

The boys saw Santa Claus at the mall and told him they wanted scooters for Christmas and that they had been good boys this year. Santa even sent them a personalized video to get them in the Christmas spirit.

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Each year it seems Caleb and Wyatt get more and more into the idea of Santa and that was certainly the case this year. “Boy” the Elf made his return and lucky for me, Shane took over the nightly headache of moving that damn elf. He wasn’t particularly naughty this year and even brought the boys a train that circles the Christmas tree and a few awesome holiday books including The Polar Express. Wyatt loves that book so much that he has nearly the whole book memorized verbatim!  I thought he had miraculously learned to read overnight, but then realized that he was just reciting the text from memory. Silly Wyatt! Speaking of Polar Express, the movie based on the book is the first full-length movie our kids have ever sat through, so naturally we watched it two weekends in a row.

I had a lot of helpers when it came time to baking cookies for our neighbors. And let me tell you, it’s really stressful having two 3-year-olds assist with cookie baking and trying my best to ensure the boys or my kitchen didn’t end up covered in ingredients, the cookies remained somewhat edible and no one got burned! We did it though and it ended up being totally exhausting lots of fun.

We were very fortunate to spend a nice, long holiday in Colorado this year and we had an awesome time. We played in the snow, went swimming, went to see the Zoolights at the Denver Zoo, drove real tractors, Caleb had two therapy sessions, we ate a lot of amazing food, but most importantly we got to spend lots of quality time with family. Shane and I were able to sneak away for a night in Denver and really enjoyed drinking and eating our way through the city. This was our first night away together since Caleb and Wyatt were born. We’ve been away by ourselves for work and stuff, but never together. A fun night out was just what the doctor ordered since 2014 has left us pretty tired and feeling like two ships passing in the night on most days. Our trip was fantastic and all three kids did pretty darn good on the flights, thank goodness. We returned rested and somewhat back into our routine. Santa even waited until we were back home to deliver his presents to the boys. We have lots of fantastic memories from this holiday season and we’re looking forward to see what 2015 has in store for our family.

Wheels up to Colorado!

Wheels up to Colorado!

"Who is that man?"

“Who is that man?”

Wyatt driving a tractor!

Wyatt driving a tractor!

Caleb's turn!

Caleb’s turn!

Don't think Parker was going to miss out!

Don’t think Parker was going to miss out!

The kiddos and their Mima & Boppie

The kiddos and their Mima & Boppie

Saying hello to the cattle.

Saying hello to the cattle.

Making cookies with Mima

Making cookies with Mima

Four generations

Four generations

Caleb working hard with a therapist in Fort Collins, Colorado

Caleb working hard with a therapist in Fort Collins, Colorado

Date Night!

Date Night!

Kids table on Christmas Eve

Kids table on Christmas Eve

Mima and her grandkids

Mima and her grandkids

Snow on Christmas! Hooray!

Snow on Christmas! Hooray!

Jessie & Wyatt find a cool clubhouse

Jessie & Wyatt find a cool clubhouse

Just back from saucer-ing in the fields.

Just back from saucer-ing in the fields.

Wyatt and Shane playing long after everyone went inside.

Wyatt and Shane playing long after everyone went inside.

Posted in Colorado, Family, Holidays, Uncategorized

Five Little Words

Most days, Caleb’s cerebral palsy doesn’t really have an affect on me. Sure, we’ve had to modify the way we do a lot of things, but they’ve become second nature to us and I don’t really think much about it. When playing with our kids we try to choose activities that Caleb and Wyatt can both enjoy and we assist Caleb with some of the more physical activities so he can play along. Recently, we were playing t-ball in the cul-de-sac in front of our house. We had some bases laid out and the boys were taking turns hitting the ball off the tee and running to first base. Caleb needs someone to hold him upright so he can swing the bat. After making contact with the ball, Shane and I were both yelling to run to first and cheering him on. He grabbed the handles of his walker and turned it towards first base and took off. His arms basically supported his body weight and his legs propelled him forward so he wasn’t taking actual steps, but rather using his walker as a scooter of sorts. In therapy this is considered cheating, since he’s not really bearing weight and his form on his steps isn’t ideal. But something happened in that short distance from the tee to first base. Caleb’s legs kind of gave out, like they do when he’s tired and he slumped down to his knees. He started whining and crying, which we’re used to, but the next five words broke my heart.

“I don’t run that well!”

Seeing the words written on this screen, they don’t look so bad, but to hear them come out of his mouth. I was devastated. This wasn’t like a whining “I’m tired” statement that we sometimes hear when Caleb would rather do something less physical; it was like a realization of the difference between he and his twin. I know this awareness would come one day and we certainly have some difficult conversations in our future but to hear him sound so defeated about his abilities was a lot for me to handle. We dusted him off and he actually continued to play (and run) for about 30 more minutes so I’m probably reading into his statement way too much but it just stung. He was just so matter-of-fact when he said it, and using the word don’t instead of can’t also led me to believe that he might feel like he will always struggle to run. We always stay positive and encourage him as much as we can but sometimes I want to pout and cry and proclaim that it’s not fair that he has these obstacles that most kids don’t. He’s going to do amazing things but not without lots of effort and hard work. I wish I could spare him these challenges but all we can do is move forward and brainstorm what we’re going to say when the questions about his disability eventually arise.

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Parker – 4 Months Old!

I should have come to expect that time would pass quickly, as it had with the twins, but here we are again. Another month, another few pounds, new likes/dislikes and emerging personality traits. Parker continues to be a really happy little guy who goes with the flow and is pretty much content anywhere. He still doesn’t love being in a car, but has learned to soothe himself quickly. He’s become quite the prolific thumb sucker and hasn’t really cared for any of the assorted types of pacifiers we have at home, including the cute Wubanub pacifiers with a stuffed elephant attached to it. I guess one less thing to remember to put in the diaper bag is ok with me! Parker is a super smiley (with dimples!) guy upon waking and has been cooing, laughing and squealing a bunch. He rolls from his back to his front, but can’t figure out how to go the other way. Despite my attempts to correct him, he prefers to sleep on his tummy while sucking his thumb. When he gets tired of this position, he’s sure to let us know. For the most part he sleeps really well and only wakes to eat once although we have gone some nights without any waking for 12 hours. These past few nights have been a challenge because he’s currently fighting his first little cold and a stuffy nose has been interfering with his ability to breath while sucking his thumb. Fumbling around in the middle of the night with the saline spray and the nose sucker while he’s screaming is only slightly less painful than trying to function after a night of such broken sleep. We haven’t really had to experience this with Parker since he’s been a pretty good sleeper since we brought him home from the hospital.  Hopefully he’s back to his old self soon… *yawn*

Parker is in the 90th percentile for weight and height, so there’s no denying he’s a big boy. The only question is when will he be the same size as his older brothers? He has a huge appetite and luckily my supply has stayed ahead of his intake. The pediatrician gave us the go ahead to start solids when we’re ready, but I’m kind of dragging my feet since solids leads to finger foods then to utensils and real meals and I’m maybe subconsciously trying to keep him little.

My favorite memory from this month has been him propped up on his elbows in his crib and seeing a huge smile on his face when he sees me walk into the room. Love that little guy! DSC_0080

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HalloWeek!

Each year as Caleb and Wyatt get a little older, there’s more and more Halloween festivities for them to take part in. This year we attended several area events in the days leading up to Halloween (hence HalloWeek) so the boys had several occasions to wear their costumes. For the third year in a row, we took the boys to the Eye Spy Halloween Train at Cabin John Park. Whenever you combine 3 year olds and a train ride through the woods, they have a great time, but throw in costumes as well and these boys were over the moon excited! A few days later, the boys got to wear their costumes to preschool to show off to their friends and then later that evening, our neighborhood put on a Halloween party and costume contest. Guess who won for most creative costume?!? That would be Officer Caleb! He was kind of freaked out by the guy trying to give him a ribbon, so he stood there and cried, loudly, which was kind of hilarious.

On actual Halloween, Caleb, Wyatt AND Parker dressed up and wore costumes to physical therapy and a party at their old daycare. The older boys loved being in costume! Caleb was especially proud of his walker (which we outfitted to look like a police cruiser) with the flashing blue light on the back! Wyatt loved the fact that he had real whiskers drawn on his face. He was really good about trying not to smudge it! So cute! Parker on the other hand, didn’t really understand what all the fuss was about. But like the chill baby that he is, he just went with the flow and let us dress him up in a cute puppy costume. The elastic band around the top of his head was a little tight, so it made for some really funny expressions! It’s like he was a real bulldog!

After dinner, we took the boys trick or treating to about a dozen houses on our street. We really tried to get Caleb to do as much walking as possible, but he would get so tired, that we ended up carrying him for part of the outing. This year, Caleb and Wyatt took turns ringing doorbells (favorite part) and saying Trick or Treat (usually needed to be prompted)! They weren’t too crazy about the candy and always said thank you and Happy Halloween! so we were pretty impressed with their behavior! Our neighborhood is perfect for trick-or-treaters, but every year we get less than 20 kids! I always buy way too much candy, which is why sugar has been coursing through my veins since last Friday. I have zero self-control!

Shane and I enjoyed putting Caleb’s police car together and it definitely provided an incentive for Caleb to walk around in it, but a small part of me prays that next year at this time we won’t have a walker to decorate! Fingers crossed!

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Parker’s face is just priceless.

 

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Fall Fun!

On a recent weekend, we decided to visit a new (to us) pumpkin patch in Frederick, MD. We’ve been going to our same local pumpkin patch since the twins were born, and decided this year to try a different place to see if there would be less crowds. We were definitely not disappointed. Summers Farm was much bigger and better organized so we rarely waiting in lines or had to deal with overcrowding, despite the fact that there were hundreds of people there. All the usual staples of a pumpkin patch could be found at Summers like the hayride to the actual patch, corn maze and slides. They also had these huge jumping pillows, farm animals to feed and live music. Our family had an absolute blast, even though we were exhausted by the time we were ready to leave. Taking three little kids to an event like this is definitely hard work, but it’s become an autumn tradition in our house and the kids talk about it for days. I’m just glad that we’re able to give our kids these experiences that they can look back upon when they’re older.

Happy Fall!

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